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Remembering Dr. Ruth Westheimer: A Pioneer in Sex Education
Dr. Ruth Westheimer, renowned sex therapist, media icon, and best-selling author, passed away at 96 on Friday at her home in New York City, surrounded by family. Her publicist and friend, Pierre Lehu, confirmed her death.
Dr. Ruth, known for her candid discussions on previously taboo sexual topics, never advocated risky sexual behavior. Instead, she promoted open dialogue and reassured her vast audience that there was nothing shameful about discussing sex. Her approach combined extensive knowledge with a humorous and nonjudgmental manner, making her a beloved figure in media and education.
Early Life and Career
Born Karola Ruth Seigel in Frankfurt, Germany, in 1928, Dr. Ruth faced early hardships. Sent to Switzerland at age 10 to escape the Nazis, she never saw her parents again, believing they perished in Auschwitz. She later moved to Palestine, joined the Haganah, and survived a bombing that severely injured her legs.
After relocating to Paris, she studied psychology at the Sorbonne and moved to New York in 1956. There, she pursued further education, eventually earning her doctorate in education from Columbia University. Dr. Ruth began teaching sex education, realizing her true calling after studying with the renowned sex therapist, Dr. Helen Singer Kaplan.
Rise to Fame
Dr. Ruth’s big break came with her local radio program, “Sexually Speaking,” in the early 1980s. Her unique, giggly, German-accented voice, combined with her petite frame, made her an unlikely but effective advocate for “sexual literacy.” Her radio success led to national syndication in 1984 and the launch of “The Dr. Ruth Show” on television a year later.
Her frank, yet tasteful discussions about sex coincided with the AIDS epidemic, making her a crucial voice in promoting safe sex and open conversation about sexual health. She authored over 40 books, including the bestseller “Dr. Ruth’s Guide to Good Sex,” and even had a board game based on her teachings.
Advocacy and Legacy
Throughout her career, Dr. Ruth defended abortion rights, supported the LGBTQ community, and promoted condom use and monogamy. Her compassionate stance was rooted in her personal history and her belief in treating everyone with respect. She spoke out during the AIDS crisis, advocating for gay men and condemning the discrimination they faced.
Despite criticism from conservative figures, Dr. Ruth remained committed to her cause. Her work earned her appearances on numerous TV shows and inclusion in People magazine’s list of “The Most Intriguing People of the Century.” Her legacy includes a long list of accolades, such as the Ellis Island Medal of Honor and honorary degrees from prestigious institutions.
Personal Life
Dr. Ruth’s personal life was as dynamic as her professional one. After two marriages, she found lasting love with Manfred Westheimer, with whom she had two children. They remained together until his death in 1997. Her resilience and passion for education continued throughout her life, as she maintained teaching posts at Yale, Hunter, Princeton, and Columbia universities, alongside a busy lecture schedule.
Final Thoughts
Dr. Ruth Westheimer’s impact on sex education and public discourse about sexuality is immeasurable. Her blend of expertise, warmth, and humor broke down barriers and made conversations about sex accessible and normalized. Her legacy will continue to inspire and educate future generations on the importance of open, honest discussions about sexual health.
